Comments on: How To Get Your Ex Back – 3 Step Plan

By: sean

sean — Thu, 16 Feb 2012 07:18:02 +0000

Realax dude its easy im 10 i did the opsite of what he said to do fliped it she started going out wit this kid gerret i fucking kicked his ass got Kayleigh back Kayleigh calls me her hero and garret calls me sir its a good life

By: shahram

shahram — Thu, 16 Feb 2012 03:59:02 +0000

How i can back my ex wife after two years ,she sad i cant decide and she sad im confuse!

By: Janet

Janet — Thu, 16 Feb 2012 01:21:54 +0000

Hello I’m in a relationship, weve been on and off. Ive been worried, he had told me that it isnt going to last. I’m trying to be good, show him my love, how can he see that spark again? How can he fall inlove with that person he fell for? Why is he saying that isnot going to last?… Idk tell me

By: Latoya

Latoya — Wed, 15 Feb 2012 18:37:05 +0000

Broken Heart, if someone knew the anwser to getting over an ex and quickly, I think that person would be rich. But healing process comes to people at a differenct pace and it yes takes time. What I do know is, if you can souround yourself around good and positive people (family, friends). Take a trip, volunteer or just try a new acitivity, this might take someof the edge off. I saw that you believe in God. Yes, prayer is good thing too. Maybe even going to a cousnelor or your some spiritual counselor, somebody to talk to, just help listen and mentor to you. Whatever you do, just don’t isolate yourself. Try to keep busy and slowly but surely you will see the light at the end of the tunnel. Its a journey and sometimes its no going to be a good experience but you will learn from it and do better next time. No body is perfect and neither was she. See if everybody broke up at the same time and go into another relationship, then there really woulnd’t be much hurting and sadness. No stories to tell, nothing to learn from, nothing to gain. But through all of that, there is joy and there were good times and good things that came from it. So sometimes it sucks that you are not dealing with this break up as good as she, someone has to suffer, but it’s okay. You are not alone!

By: Latoya

Latoya — Wed, 15 Feb 2012 18:26:04 +0000

Alexis, sounds like this guy just isn’t ready for a serious or commited relationship. Going back and forth or taking a person back and then they turn around and leave you. This behaviour only leaves you more and more confused and makes you obsessed with him over and over. That my friend is not healthy. You need to take care of yourself so you will be strong enough to resist this kind of behavior. If he keeps coming back and you keep letting him then what kind of standards are you setting? Remeber you are the driver and you are in control. Don’t let your heart do all the driving you have to be smart too or it will leave you weak and confused and you will always take this guy back. It sounds like he is just playing to see if you are going to fall for him and when you do, he is no longer interested. Sounds like he is a serial dater. But you don’t have to tolerate it. I would try to build yourself up, stay grounded by talking to your family members, friends. Take up new activites (dance classe, sports, volunteering, job). Once you feel better about yourself and stronger than you can feel a since of indepdendancy and control. So please take percaustion and find out if and when he does return, why does he want to be with you. What will his intentions be with you this time. Short-term, Longterm or just for fun? Because you need to find out what kind of person you are dealing with and by his anwsers you will know for yourself that you need to move on.

By: Latoya

Latoya — Wed, 15 Feb 2012 18:14:15 +0000

Hi Rae, you all have a lot of history together and a child. What’s up with him always leaving and coming back? Thats not healthy at all for this kind of family. Maybe it’s best you see a counseler this time. I am not sure how old you all are. But there’s a reason he keeps coming and going and do you want that to be the story of your life? You need to set some standards for him. If he is going to be commited then he needs to work it out and you both get some help together to get to the bottom of why he keeps fleeing. If it’s a deeper issue and it’s not your problem then maybe it’s something that he has to work on. Maybe is having anxiety or doubts and get overwhelmed and doesn’t know how to deal with his feelings, emotions, etc. I don’t know the case. My ex of over 2 years did the same thing. Back and Forth, one foot in and the other out and I would break up with him cause I didn’t know if he was ready. Then we get back and then he would break up with me as soon as it got tough. He was afraid and scared. But I can’t live that kind of life never knowing when he’s going to come back and then leave. It’s mentally draining and stressful and you need someone that is always going to be there, regardless! That’s I had to learn from my last experience. When I don’t get my way or get scared, we shouldn’t run but to sit down and get to the core of what’s “really” going on with US or the individual. Addressing the problem (s) is better than being in a relationship avoiding most of them until they spill over. I hope you are doing alright and everything work out.

By: Latoya

Latoya — Wed, 15 Feb 2012 17:59:07 +0000

Hannah, it was a joint decision (on both guy and ex gf). So the guy that you were dating, he apparently wanted to get back with his ex. If she is playing him just to make you jealous and doesn’t really want him, then let him figure that one out for himself. If I was you, I wouldn’t be to concerned about taking him back, especially if he just recently broken up with the girl. It’s never good to be the “rebound”. So I would take precaution as you don’t want to be used like that. Just count this as his loss and your gain, especially if you are ready for a new relationship. I don’t think he would be emotionally available to you starting a new relationship, don’t you think? So why drag it out and see where it goes, only for you to find out he was using you or discovering that he keeps running back to ex, texting and talking to his ex — too much confusion girl. If you are stable and emotinally ready to start dating and ready to be in relationship, don’t you want to start fresh with someone who has the same intentions in mind? You will find yourself stressed and exhausted and dissapointed trying to win this guy over and for what? Plus there will be an ex involved too. Sounds like drama waiting to happen. Well you choose what you want to do and what you are willing to put up with. I wish you to look else where.

By: Latoya

Latoya — Wed, 15 Feb 2012 17:46:54 +0000

Joe, it sounds like your feelings for her are still strong and they are running deep down to your soul. So obligating yourself to her, just to be in her company as “friends” is not benefiting you whatsoever or making you happy. Maybe you should just take some time away from her so you can get to a better place of feeling comfortable being just “friends”. You are going to just make yourself miserable appearing to be “cool” with being her friend. You need to build yourself up again to feel good about being single/indepedent even if you and her never get back together. When you get to the place that you feel OK about it, then probably tell her you are ready to be friends with her. But do it on your own time, I am sure she will understand that. Sometimes we want something so bad that we can’t have but if it is truely ours then it was never gone in the first place. Time tells everything. Take time out for yourself and learn about somethings you may want to work on and change about yourself. This is a learning experience. It sucks but we have to push through it so we can get to a better and happier place.

By: Latoya

Latoya — Wed, 15 Feb 2012 17:36:28 +0000

Hi Kat, you are really going to have to be strong sweetie and try to pick yourself up, dust yourself off and keep yourself and mind busy. Because if he is the only thing that makes you happy, then if you get back together and then he breaks up again with you, then you will fill worse again, right? So try to find a way to make yourself happy, day by day. Take baby steps and do something for yourself in a positive way. The last thing you want to do is turn your friends away, depend on them, this is those most delicate time for you and you need every body’s help, family and friends. Dating other people might fill the void but only temporary. It’s okay that you still love him and he was special to your — it’s okay to feel that way and you make feel that way for a while, but try to accept that it is over and may be for some time. If you get in your mind that it’s over and some how manage to keep yourself occupied and get to a better place and heal, then who know’s what the future holds. But waiting and waiting and worrying is only going to make you more sad and depressed. I know how you feel and I hope you take this time to work on yourself, even if some days you feel like crying, but get it out, pray for strenght, write it down, talk to someone, but just don’t keep focusing on him cause you won’t be happy either way. Some times God allows things to happen so we can depend on him and become better people for ourselves. I hope you are doing a little better.

By: Hannah

Hannah — Tue, 14 Feb 2012 19:13:40 +0000

new girl*